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the bad news

We've been paying for all of our IUI's and treatments through our HSA because our insurance doesn't cover it and what they do cover isn't very much. At this time I'd like to remind you that we've been through 3 cycles with approximately $800 per cycle and about $2,400 dollars later, we are still not pregnant. With all of that said, we just got our statement for our HSA account and we are down to a little less than $900 in there and we haven't even come close to meeting our deductible.

So, looks like we'll be on a longer break that we had originally planned. As much as this sucks, we are actually really enjoying out break. I haven't kept track of the days in days. I know roughly where I am in my cycle but not to the minute like I was tracking before. It's such a huge relief and weight off of my shoulders! I'm not sure what will come from it, but we are hopeful and having more fun than we have had in years...

So, as always stay tuned but for now we just have to wait until we have some more funds to pay for the next steps, unless something happens naturally.

Cross your fingers for us!


Alyson said…
Keeping my fingers crossed for the natural route! Good Luck!!
Kelli said…
Enjoy your break! You never know what might happen!
Rachel said…
Natural would be awesome! I'm sorry for the break:(

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